Thank You

I just celebrated my first ever Thanksgiving in Hong Kong. I’ve never actually thought much about Thanksgiving, even though it’s widely celebrated in Toronto amongst my relatives. As always, it’s just another excuse for a family gathering where we gorge on turkey, roasted veggies, and yummy desserts. We don’t actually “give thanks” for anything. But this Thanksgiving was very different but in a good way. First of all, it wasn’t the Canadian Thanksgiving (Oct. 9th), but American (Nov. 23rd). Feels a bit weird celebrating this close to Christmas. It was a close gathering amongst friends. The atmosphere was warm and intimate, and we really did share about what we’ve been thankful for this past year.

As I mulled over everything that’s been going on in the past year, I can honestly say that I’m most thankful for my family. I know, its so cliché! After being away from home for four years, it was hard to adjust back into “family life”. It’s been over a year now, and I love being at home, living with my parents. At first I thought it was a step backwards, moving back home. But I’ve realized that it’s actually a step forward into developing a new relationship with my family as an adult. When I left home, I was still a kid. But now I’m all grown up (believe it or not). It’s interesting interacting with them in this new way. Our relationship has begun to grow into a beautiful friendship. So yes, I give thanks for my parents. And for having the opportunity to spend this time with them, creating wonderful memories to last a lifetime.